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Saturday, August 20, 2005

Did you suffer love at first sight

Bhupinder Kohli
Numerous hearts have claimed that the cupid stuck them just as they exchanged looks, something clicked and love flashed in the air. “At a glance of Pinky I disclosed aloud to myself – she’s the one I had been waiting for!” discloses Rajat Chopra, 24. “Yeah! It’s the love at first sight,” he titters.Love at first sight depends on our psychological state at the moment. Many a times we won’t even notice those fascinating eyes, but at some moment they’ll mean the world to us. “I think the 30 seconds theory of falling in love or precisely speaking to estimate whether the person is worth to fall in love with happened with us,” Pinky, 23, adds. Experts say that our ideals, intuition, fast logic, instinct and imagination all play their role in laying the trap of the love at first sight. When you fall in love, you are usually ready and willing to experience the rib-tickling emotion. Of course! the appearance, voice, gestures and odour of the dream-flower gal/guy act as the deciding factors. By the way some theories say that we fall in love not from the first sight but from the first smell. Scientist claim that we pay much attention to what our eyes and ears tell us but on the subconscious level the way the person smells play a very big part in his or her expression on us although we don’t recognize it.If you suddenly fall in love with quiet unknown person and can feel the same fire on the other side, then the mother-nature has chosen a partner for you. In this case, it is like “Aha, match!” But when someone happens to fill up all the necessary categories like tall, blond, blue-eyed, looks good, has a style and mannerism, check it out first, as beauty is used to grabbing attention, and is rather used to it. So, your delightful reaction may simply bear no reciprocation.Still there are many cases, when people really had fallen in love from the first sight and lived long and happily after that is rather it. You may dream of a beautiful stranger that waits for you just around the corner but it’s wrong to name every slight sympathy and interest to a person the love at first sight. Maybe you’re just a little tired of everything that surrounds you or trying to fill the emptiness inside, yet it doesn’t mean everyone who looks nice would do. Sometimes it takes patience and time to find out the true nature of your feelings, mind that wonders do happen but not as often as we would like them too. If you suddenly have felt the wings behind you back still try to keep your feet on the ground because if it’s really love at first sight nothing will happen to it but if you’re taking illusions for reality falling back on the ground can be really hurtful.

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